CONSUMPTION pornography increased because of ease of access to them. Because of this, appears Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder (SADD) aka disease consume too much pornography on the Internet.
People with SADD become so accustomed to always update the visual and stimulation with the impressions that come from Internet pornography. They become not focus on sex in real life.
As a result, people with SADD is often difficult to maintain an erection during intercourse, sometimes experienced delayed ejaculation, or can only climax with manual or oral stimulation. It is quoted from the AskMen.
Bored in bed?
According to Ian Kerner, PhD, sex therapist and founder of the site Good in Bed, guy with SADD tend to find themselves getting bored or impatient during sex. Physiologically, they are stimulated and can be "upright", but not mentally excited. Men with SADD also significantly less interested in sex and would prefer to satisfy themselves with masturbation.
Despite relatively normal frequency of masturbation, many men do not realize that the natural period of refractory-recovery time between erections with erectile next one-increase as you age.
According to experts, sex, is nothing wrong with masturbation. However, easy access to pornography on the internet has affected most of the men who actually do not have a problem. Because of this addiction, they'd set his mind to achieve instant gratification from pornography. They got used to fantasize during sex real. The goal is to maintain an erection.
What to do men with SADD?
First, give the delay time for masturbation. Save the "swimmer" aka your sperm for couples. If you are single, reduce the frequency of your masturbation.
When you masturbate, try to use non-dominant hand. For example, if you're used to move with his right hand, touch your body with your left hand. You will not be able to apply the same stimulus intensity as do the dominant hand, so the sensation of sex in real life will remain interesting.
Second, stop consuming pornography. What has been seen of course still be recorded properly. So when masturbation, use your mind to recall episodes of sex in it.
Instead, share your sexual fantasies and experimenting with your partner, for example through role play (role play). Before having sex, make yourself reach the point where you are at peak physical and mental arousal.
Step foot away from your computer and head for the bedroom. You should be able to pay attention to the real sex life.
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